The Meaning of “Without Me” by Halsey

Halsey Without Me

The hit single “Without Me” was released in October of 2018 and is about her relationship with G-Eazy.

The name Halsey is actually an anagram for her real name Ashley.

The song “Without Me” was released in October of 2018 and quickly rose to the top as it resonated with fans across the globe stuck in similar situations.

You should also know that G-Eazy actually loves the song! I’m not sure how I would feel if I was in his situation, but the song is pretty catchy!

And without further adieu.

Found you when your heart was broke
I filled your cup until it overflowed
Took it so far to keep you close (Keep you close)
I was afraid to leave you on your own

Halsey started seeing G-Eazy right after he went through a break up. She gave him more attention, love, and affection than he could have ever needed. She went to extremes to keep him, and she didn’t want him to feel alone again. Which is typical in a normal relationship.

I said I’d catch you if you fall
And if they laugh, then fuck ’em all (All)
And then I got you off your knees
Put you right back on your feet
Just so you can take advantage of me

Halsey proved she would be there for him no matter what and if people wanted to criticize, then fuck them, because she was happy. When G-Eazy struggled, she helped him get back on track. Which unfortunately led to him continuing to take advantage of everything she was doing for him. I personally think that these lines are referring to many other people in her life, as well as G-Eazy..

Tell me how’s it feel sittin’ up there
Feeling so high but too far away to hold me
You know I’m the one who put you up there
Name in the sky
Does it ever get lonely?

Halsey wanted to know how it felt to be on the pedestal that she put him on. Especially with him doing really well again, but now without her, because he took advantage of her too many times. She is the reason he got back to himself and even improved. But she also wants to know if it was worth it to him to lose her once he got back to himself. I would think not, but there is two sides to every story, so who knows.

Thinking you could live without me
Thinking you could live without me
Baby, I’m the one who put you up there
I don’t know why (yeah, I don’t know why)
Thinking you could live without me
Live without me
Baby, I’m the one who put you up there
I don’t know why (I don’t know why, yeah yeah)

I think this is her saying that this “high” that he has will be short lived without her. Especially because she is the reason that he is where he is. The worst part is, she doesn’t even know why she put his needs above her own. My guess is when you truly love someone, you would do anything for them. Including destroying yourself to make sure they are taken care of and happy. I’m not saying that is a good thing! I’m just stating that sometimes love can be one sided, and you can forget about important things, such as yourself!!

Gave love ’bout a hundred tries (hundred tries)
Just running from the demons in your mind
Then I took yours and made ’em mine (made ’em mine)
I didn’t notice ’cause my love was blind

Halsey tried leaving and finding someone better, who would reciprocate the love she gave because G-Eazy’s demons were too much for her — eventually she took them on as her own.

She was so in love that she didn’t even realize the extra burdens she was putting on herself. This is super relate-able and happens very often to people.

My only question is would your significant other do the same for you?

You don’t have to say just what you did
I already know (I know)
I had to go and find out from them
So tell me how’s it feel (oh-woah)

She didn’t need G-Eazy to admit his faults because she already knew what he did. She took it upon herself to go to the source and find out the truth. Then she asks him to tell her how it feels being where he is at because of her, yet abusing her trust and taking advantage of her.

This is a tricky one considering these lyrics are from “Cry Me a River” By Justin Timberlake. Halsey either just liked the lyrics, or G-Eazy did something that deserved them. Let’s hope it was just a matter of some really good lyrics being added for fun..

19 Comments

    • Her boyfriend is feeling so high, but in the process of getting to where he is, he lost her. Therefore he is too far away to hold her, she helped him get where he is but he can’t even share the experience with her because she left.

      • The fact that he can’t enjoy his own growth, success, and fortune with the person who helped him get there and still loves this song says alot.

        The reason why he loves the song and why many abusers like it is because they dont take accountability and see their behavior as a problem. Your reaction becomes the problem.. they bump it full of ego, no pain, no remorse, no empathy. While you bump it from the heart because you actually acted selflessly from the heart, because you were actually honest, and you really don’t know why you were when they constantly were not..

        Her ability to empathize with his shame is remarkable, she knows what he’s like at his low.. when he is most toxic, when his ego is broken, and his shame is holding him back.. this song just has to hit him deep when he’s alone. “Too far to hold her”. If that doesn’t secretly eat away at his shame idk what will.

        • My ex fella falls into the same category as the guy in the video and I actually mean that I thought I given my ex everything and more yet he’s still gone out of our home and hurt other people that didn’t need his sad ways to enter theirs.

      • I don’t think G Eazy getting back up and back into it is the reason they are not together. She sounds crazy to me and the guy needed out. Just listen to the lyrics, she sounds up herself, as if the guy wasn’t successful before her and without her. The guy was just going through a breakup and having normal down feelings. She can’t take credit, any rebound would have resulted in the same story.

        • Of course you would say that she is crazy. we HEAR the lyrics loud and clear and if you’re a song fanatic and appreciate music, you would understand. I mean you think she is crazy, I promise it doesn’t bother her one bit. This song hit the top 100’s for a reason and was #1 for a reason. I promise it was not because it sucked. He wasn’t that successful before her. I didn’t even know who he was.

    • I watched the video and I actually thought him on the video had been caught stealing off her after she’s got him everything

  1. This song I relate to my late sons passing. To a T. I did all I could to help him in his addiction. To no avail he died on me.

    • I am so sorry for your loss. Addiction is a double ended blade. It hurts those addicted and those who try to help. It’s always a sad day when addiction wins, especially when it is someone you love. I know this from experience as well. May your son Rest In Peace.

  2. I can relate to her feelings because that what happened to me to the man i truly love and changed my life for and i sacrificed a lot for him so that he won’t feel less of a man. I did it all to put him high but he was so blind to lie and cheated on me thinking i won’t find out

    I was so cool when i find out coz i knew he won’t live longer without me

    we do so much for the ones we love forgetting ourselves

  3. The song and it lyrics reflected so much in my life. After I lost my mum at age 9 I took every other person as my enemy due to the pain and trauma I had… Then I met this guy who is bmx flatland rider and I am a dancer like .. We planned on making videos to together, he tried to influence me positively but I was too difficult for him to understand… So he decided to let me go and I became more hurt than when I lost my mum… I just tried choreographing the song to let people know that holding back and being addicted to some certain stuff could make you loose love… Love is ment to make you grow not make you lesser…

  4. there’s been conspiracy theories that the so g isn’t truly about g eazy it about another ex that she secretly killed but used him as the cover up to the song, the lyrics ” I’m the one who put up there in the sky tell me how does it feel sitting up there tell does it get lonely, is the reason to conspiracy theroy

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